3 signs you are in an unhappy relationship
21 December 2015, 14:55
Nairobi - Are you in an unhappy relationship? Here's how to know.
You make excuses for
The way they treat you, talk to you or basically an uncaring
act; when they are pointed out to you by others, you make an excuse for them.
You are always defending them to other people despite the fact that you could
actually do better.
You would have liked
more from a relationship but you do nothing to change it
They do not fulfill you as a good relationship would but you
just stay. You do not want to start looking again for another partner because
it seems tedious. You just explain it to yourself as, ‘everybody is the same
either way.’ You do not ask them for more because you are resigned to them
being as they are so you do not demand for any change from them.
You work harder at
keeping it together
Relationships are work, yes but yours puts a different
meaning to the word. It is not even a fifty-fifty type of effort where they are
also putting in some effort because you are doing it all on your own. You solve
the problems by yourself, come up with solutions by yourself; it frustrates you
but you would rather cope with that than being alone.
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