3 signs this man is lying to you
16 May 2016, 15:21
Nairobi - If that is not what you want to do.
Yesterday, I was watching My Dream Wedding. Normal stuff
happening the when the man starts talking about his bride when she is coming
down the aisle; this woman never wears make up. She only did it now because it
was an important occasion. The man saw her, and his words were, ‘Hee, this is
make up. I now understand. I like it; from now on you should be wearing
Now you know we are about to have a problem because make up
works in various and many ways. The first two; you will either look uglier with
it and that is as a novice or you will look prettier with it and that is as
someone who has been practicing. She has not been practicing.
The other problem, not all women like make up. Some like
being natural and some just don’t like it because of the work and the expense.
She looked like the simpler kind and now before they are even crossing the
altar the man is already changing his demands. Can’t even run away.
See why I have a problem with men? They never know what they
are talking about half the time they choose to comment on something especially
when it comes to the women they date. And women run around trying to fulfill
those demands only for the man to change on her and maybe even break a
relationship because she now does not know what to do
I don’t think he is going to do that by the way; they looked
like the really in love type not these other ones we normally see pretending.
They looked happy; you can tell a happy couple.
Example one; ‘I don’t like women that wear make-up’
Kenyan men have a problem with make-up and I am sure this
groom once had a conversation with the lady and he told her how he likes her
because she is not like these other women who wear the stuff. See how fast he
changed on her after seeing the results? She did not look ugly without but it
enhanced and he really…really liked it.
Don’t listen to men. Don’t listen to your boyfriend and if
it is your husband-he is a culprit. There will reach a point even mostly as you
mature in marriage you will want to upgrade, look better and be better-if you
are normal. Now as you date your man will cry up and down how he doesn‘t want
you to do the stuff but just one time, carry an experiment and do a toned down
version of it where you look nice. See what happens. Do what you like and make
your man understand your opinions. Don’t do things for a man to try make him
like you more. They change on you so fast and you see them ogling the same ones
they are preaching against.
‘I don’t like women
that dress this way’
I am not saying you look like you are wearing your underwear
but we all have different personal tastes. He saw you when he approached you.
He was not blind; let him leave you in peace. This is the same man that will
make you wear drab clothing, marry you and cheat on you with the same woman he
turned you from being. He will choose her that is careful with her dress, wears
it nice and fitting and looks sexy. Then he will tell you, you stopped being sexy.
Don’t change your style, he approached while you had it.
I don’t like career
oriented women-they are so bossy and don’t know about marriage
He will turn around and ask you why you cannot do for
yourself why you have to beg him for everything. Just watch and see. That is
just how it work and this man will always be cold when you keep begging then he
will go get with the same women you stopped being for him. Isn’t that a joke?
Cannot continue, Kenya power is messing with me.
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