3 signs of a fair relationship
03 December 2015, 21:12
Nairobi - What is a fair relationship? What are the signs?
You definitely cannot interfere with your partner’s work
Maybe it is that colleague that you have never like or the
boss that you know harasses them but if they have not asked you to step in; it
might not be wise to. Do not bring your drama at their work or create a scene
either. Wait for them to get home if you have a problem. If they lose their job
it will be left to you to keep the both of you afloat and you cannot complain
Snide remarks while the two of you are arguing
People forgive but they rarely forget it will always be at
the back of their mind what you said. So every time even after you have both
gotten over the situation they will keep thinking, ‘so that is how you actually
feel?’ It will eventually ruin the relationship.
Putting down your partner’s efforts
It is not necessarily related to you but it might be their
work, or something that they are trying to do. Making them inferior or laughing
them off is a form of emotional abuse. Maybe you are aware of what you are
doing, but if not, refrain from doing it. They will go seek the support
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