3 signs of a desperate woman
31 March 2016, 21:30
Nairobi - Are you attracting the wrong men? Or none at all?
It might be your appearance
Apparently, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder or what is
important is what is inside. All very true but also, first impressions are very
important and how do you get first impression? By someone’s presentation the
first time you meet them or see them. If people all gave the aforementioned
stuff a chance, then we would all not hide or run away when we spot some of our
blind dates the very first time. So presentation is very important. When you do
not take time to dress well and appropriately, you will not get approached.
When you dress indecently, you will also attract someone who will have a one
track mind when it comes to you. When you go for a date and you are dressed
skimpily-too tight, spilling all over the wrong way, not proper fit or sheer
from head to toe-then do not be surprised when they want to taste the main
You lie about your expectations
You see on those initial dates when we are saying what we
want or expect obviously you do not want to chase some away. So you decorate some stuff, keep some silent,
and you hope that as they get to know you, they will change their mind about
you. But just as you were not sure whether you might like someone on the first
dates, so were they, so when you said some things they sort of agreed. That
will change someone with good intentions to have lesser intentions as long as
they know they can get away with it. If you said you do not want something
serious, they will change it to that because you have created the loop/space
for them to do so and get away with it. That way, if you see them with someone
else, you cannot even complain but keep sticking around hoping they will come
You want keep doing the same things but with better people in mind
As long as you keep behaving the way you do, keep having the
same attitudes and not break some habits; you will keep attracting the same
group of men who you have been dealing with. You might just have to stop
smoking, more church and less one night stands, more reading and less partying
and more lady less…the other kind.
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