3 signs he is the right man for you
29 July 2016, 12:26
Nairobi - Is he the right man for you? Here are 3 signs he is.
offer to help in the things that need to be done around
Goes both ways, not just women- although
they are the ones that need to see this the most. If your boyfriend sees you
washing and offers to help with cooking or go to the shops; that is a good
boyfriend. Not these other one that will stare at the television and when you
ask, they grumble or get mad. Yours is actually offering to help out. ‘Or he
asks ‘what can I do to help’, let’s say, you cook and there is a pile of dishes
or vice versa. Marry that person.
If you are a man and your girlfriend steps
in to pick up some tabs when you cannot or she handles some sensitive issues
for you where you cannot stand in; if that is not wife material I do not know
what is. Because what most men have is an unbothered women, she knows you said
you will pay those bills, so that is your share; case closed.
do what they say they will
You know that type that you follow around?
They break promises, forget, have an ‘I don’t care attitude’ and you just feel
like you cannot trust them to do anything for you.
It ends up being a situation where, you do
it yourself or end up disappointed. If yours does not put you in the same place
of feeling disappointment or alone when you are actually with someone; they are
good people to have around. They are reliable and you can depend on them
especially when it comes to the serious issues.
respect you enough not to let any of their family disrespect you
This one should even be first place. A
partner who does not let them look down on you especially in a relationship
where they are very close to their family, is a good spouse. I insist on them
having a good relationship with their own family because in a situation where
it is the opposite and they have actually never gotten along; it might just be
to spite them and nothing to do with you.
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