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3 signs he is not giving you 100%?

23 September 2015, 15:32 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi -  Is he giving you 100% in your relationship?

Get to know his real feelings about you

There is nothing worse than giving a person 100% to someone who is giving out 20%, 50% over there and the other 30% in another county. The worst part is when you try to convince yourself that that is just the way they are and you will have to accept it. I saw it with a friend of mine and that is how I know what I know.

It is the first tell-tale sign that lets you know that the man you are dealing with is not even yours, but someone else’s; also my friend’s case! I also gave her the same advice I am about to give you and I became persona non-grata because ‘I was trying to ruin her relationship’; until the wife from his home country showed up.

How do you know you are not getting what you deserve from the man you should are giving you 100% to?

His attention has never been yours to have

Even while you are with this guy he is not there except maybe when the two of you are having sex and it is like one foot is in and the other is out. He is just not there. He does not want to take you out and his plans never include you. Other people are bringing their women along but he does not even invite you. He just lets you know, ‘so I can’t make it because I am not going to be in town’. Next week,’ I am just too busy!’

He never lets you know where he is, or when he will drop off the grid

By the way, men are capable of actually liking and loving their women. Also when they do, he will let her know where he is, and with who. We make jokes about how women like being in their men’s business which is the truth and when he likes her, he will tell her his business. It is that simple. If he does not make an effort neither does he care what you feel because you are not in the loop, then he does not really care about you.

He does not make an effort. Ever!

Texts are so easy. Just because a man texts you does not mean he is putting in effort. If that is all you are getting gratification from, then you are with the wrong man. Men who like their women, call her and text her to see how she is doing. He will set up something with her and if he sees that something about him is bothering her, he will make an effort to try repairing it for her. If he is not even interested when you vent to him about him not showing feeling and never calls and just does not really care then he is not that into you.

He is also not there when you need him and when you are in trouble, you might just as well sink with that ship because he is not going to throw you any lifesavers.

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