3 signs he is not giving you 100%?
23 September 2015, 15:32
Nairobi - Is he giving you 100% in your relationship?
Get to know his real feelings about you
There is nothing worse than giving a person 100% to someone
who is giving out 20%, 50% over there and the other 30% in another county. The
worst part is when you try to convince yourself that that is just the way they
are and you will have to accept it. I saw it with a friend of mine and that is
how I know what I know.
It is the first tell-tale sign that lets you know that the
man you are dealing with is not even yours, but someone else’s; also my
friend’s case! I also gave her the same advice I am about to give you and I
became persona non-grata because ‘I was trying to ruin her relationship’; until
the wife from his home country showed up.
How do you know you are not getting what you deserve from
the man you should are giving you 100% to?
His attention has never been yours to have
Even while you are with this guy he is not there except
maybe when the two of you are having sex and it is like one foot is in and the
other is out. He is just not there. He does not want to take you out and his
plans never include you. Other people are bringing their women along but he
does not even invite you. He just lets you know, ‘so I can’t make it because I
am not going to be in town’. Next week,’ I am just too busy!’
He never lets you know where he is, or when he will drop off
By the way, men are capable of actually liking and loving
their women. Also when they do, he will let her know where he is, and with who.
We make jokes about how women like being in their men’s business which is the
truth and when he likes her, he will tell her his business. It is that simple.
If he does not make an effort neither does he care what you feel because you
are not in the loop, then he does not really care about you.
He does not make an effort. Ever!
Texts are so easy. Just because a man texts you does not
mean he is putting in effort. If that is all you are getting gratification
from, then you are with the wrong man. Men who like their women, call her and
text her to see how she is doing. He will set up something with her and if he
sees that something about him is bothering her, he will make an effort to try repairing
it for her. If he is not even interested when you vent to him about him not
showing feeling and never calls and just does not really care then he is not
that into you.
He is also not there when you need him and when you are in
trouble, you might just as well sink with that ship because he is not going to
throw you any lifesavers.
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