3 sex rules for women
13 January 2016, 16:33
Nairobi - I think to some extent a lot of women do not rush for the
title because they are desperate but because at times dating as a single women
is just a lot of work. It can be
strenuous; having conversations with someone whom you have found you do not
click with but you don’t want to be mean. It can be boring and it can be work
but it can also be fun which is why we still do it at the end of the day. All
those rules to apply and follow as well; it gets tedious.
Don’t invite him in or
let him invite you in after the first date
We say we can think like adults and adults are allowed to be
free-spirited when it comes to making the right decision. But when it comes to
the man you actually like and want to see more of, hold off on the sex for a
while. Seriously, just don’t do it; go out, have your bit of fun and when you
two are finally in a comfortable space, think about but never before you
actually know someone. Men say they
respect a woman who is grown enough to make her decisions but they still judge
you on how fast you loosen your drawers, it is that simple.
Don’t offer oral sex for
anyone who has yet to be anything serious
Only do the dirty oral dance for your boyfriend or husband.
Don’t make the mistake of doing it so that someone can give you the title;
which what most women do. You want to
prove how much of a little minx you can be, but trust me don’t do it. He will
praise you and say how amazing you are at it but what is going on in his mind,
‘so she does this with everyone? She is not even my girlfriend and she is
already having oral sex with me. What else can she do? I better find out before
I let her off.’
Date multiply, have
While finding the one you would like to settle for, you are
obviously dating a couple of people. For women, most women, I think the reason
they get attached to one man without him even agreeing to it is because it is
sort of hard to date five people and be thinking of all five sexually at the
same time. It does not work. That is why she will date one person; he will
disappoint her because she put all her focus on him, have sex too early and he
moves on. The thing you need to do as a woman is date a couple of people seeing
who has the best qualities that you would like in a boyfriend. The one that
chooses you and you also choose him; to be in a relationship with is the one
you have sex with. This way you filter out those who do not make the cut.
Don’t get confused. Be on the first date with this one, get
lured in the first night and when he does not call, do the same with the next
and next and next. That is how you end up having a very disappointing
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