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3 reasons your relationship is broken

23 December 2015, 15:05 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - Is your relationship broken? Here's why it going down the gutter.

If it is not broken stop trying to fix it

There is nothing wrong with trying to improve a relationship or make it better that is part of its growth. The problem comes in when you get into a relationship and you are already looking for problems to fix. It has nothing to do with this relationship but that is usually baggage from your last relationship with your last partner; it has not happened yet but you are afraid it will. Who says it will even happen. That is why you are always advised to solve your issues before getting into a relationship with someone. Don’t bring it to them and play the blame game with them when they do not find a problem where there is none. ‘You are not working with me on this relationship to make it work’ if this is one of your taglines with them it is already breaking.

If you are not finding that you are looking for in your partner it is a reflection of you

Hustling your partner; because that is actually what you are doing. It is part of the reason people hate being in a relationship with someone who keeps trying to change them. You are looking for qualities in them that you already know that they don’t have. Since you cannot find a partner with that yet, you settle on one and try to force it down their throat. In this case, it is not them but it is you. What is it that bothers you about yourself that makes you force other people to bend to what you want?

Focusing on petty details and not seeing the bigger picture

Keep picking at the same thing and you will eventually find what you were looking for; a problem. Some people never realize that by focusing on that one small point or many small points they lost sight of what they were actually getting which was more significant. You lost the important thing, person or relationship because you were on their head every time with simpler minute things but losing what it is they were there for.

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