3 reasons you should not get married
14 December 2015, 13:23
Nairobi - There is a reason that marriage and its bliss has taken an L
in our generation. That is because when you watch most couples that are meant
to be a good example live apart but in the same house. It is like two people
basically came together after mutual attraction to help each other pay bills.
Maybe that is why people do not care anymore and just have that part out of the
way by coming into an agreement.
You only see your partner when they are asleep…in bed
Work, work, work! They are only home for the hours they come
to sleep and they spend the rest of the day at work. They are rarely at home on
the weekends because they are either at some event, work function or family
obligation. If you are lucky and they are at home; you know they just want to
relax and some quite not go out.
When was the last time your wife or husband was excited to
be with you
Just think of the last time you wanted to do something but
you did not have to go through and elaborate preparation or plan to make them
spend time with you. After you two got really into it, living together and
eventually a baby or two, you just reverted to a lifestyle and settled into it.
Everything has to be scheduled. It is no longer even fun to be with each other
since you end up talking about bills or the kids and work.
You see other people more than you see them
The circumstances do not matter if this rings a bell for you
and your marriage. The point is that; you know your partner less and less than
you probably should. You have no idea of what is going on with them but know
more about the other people you talk to. That is how emotional cheating starts;
a shoulder to cry on becomes a body to lie with and on.
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