3 reasons you are not getting Mr right
16 December 2015, 23:58
Nairobi - You are not getting Mr right. Why?
You make guys question
you and your judgment when you do not get to know them but want to be with
This is important not because of the building and growing
that follows but because it makes the other person question you and your
character judgment. You do not question them, their intentions and why they
should be in your life. It is a matter of them wondering if they actually want
to be with someone who is not as protective of themselves as they should be. If
you are doing that with them, what other bad decisions are you making that will
affect them? Don’t be so focused on being someone’s that you forget to look for
the right things in the person that should be with you.
You keep choosing the
wrong men for the role
It is not that there is a lack of something but rather you
keep looking in areas that have been exhausted or you look where someone else
looked. It is sort of like business, you need to identify an undiscovered need.
If you keep using the same approach and it has not yet worked, you need to
change tactics in order to be successful. Thusly if you keep choosing a
particular man and they all keep turning out as not the best thing for you, you
need to consider that maybe you keep choosing the wrong ones. Sit down and
really think if the men you keep picking for the role might just not be it for
you. Change the qualities you want and focus on what you need in the man you
want as a husband/ boyfriend.
Being too rigid
You are too focused on the list that you have. Has to do
this, come from this background, look like this; yet it is not like you have
that much too offer. Or maybe you do but so what. I always say, what you can do
or have the next one will or might have even better. Being close-minded means
you already have an attitude and men can spot an attitude. It does not matter
how nice you are if they spot it, you will never even get approached or make it
past the first date. No man wants a rigid woman.
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