3 reasons why arguing in relationship is healthy
01 December 2015, 10:34
Arguing once in a while in a relationship could be the secret to a long and healthy relationship.The way you argue, however, signals so much about a relationship. Subconsciously, arguments demonstrate that you care about each other despite how annoyed you might feel towards your partner.
Here are 3 reason why arguing helps
1. Argue but don't fight
Healthy couples argue once in a while. If you never argue in you relationship, something is definitely wrong. Arguing, unlike fighting, is non-combative; you and your partner state your point of views without name-calling or raising your voices. Sometimes you will disagree; that's okay. The point is hearing your partner out, not attacking them for viewing a situation differently than you.
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2. You learn to compromise
An argument should never ever be about who wins and who loses. It should be about finding middle ground through a compromise. It's not always easy and it doesn't have to be achieved in first round. Learning to compromise is crucial since you cannot always be agreeing on everything in your relationship.
3. It clears negative emotions
There is nothing worse than mastering the art of bottling up everything in a relationship. Eventually, it will all burst into a messy rant. Addressing each argument as it comes up rather than sweeping it under the carpet can help you get it out of your system. Arguments clear emotional channels of frustration, resentment and anger.
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