3 reasons casual dating is good
27 July 2015, 17:12
Nairobi -I do not believe in jumping in and out of things like
someone who does not know their own mind. But casual dating is one of those
things that can be good for you rather than the opposite. If done right.
Casual dating is when you open yourself up to meeting a lot
of people rather than tying yourself to one person and clinging to them.
You get to know
We all hope that by the time that we are adults we know
ourselves and we know how to conduct ourselves around other people. How you
deal with attraction. Do you close up or are you confident enough to approach
the other person that you might like? Are you more afraid of rejection rather
than finding out. Knowing yourself better enables you to make the right moves
when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. That way you never have to be a
wallflower and wait to be approached. People who wait to be approached always
end up with people that they just settle with because they never had any other
option. Eliminating the ‘no other’ option mentality in your dating life will
enable you to get and meet the right partner for you.
You share strong
connections with the right people
Notice that I said connections
rather than connection. I could harp on about taking control of your life
and situations but you do get the point. Dating should not be about one person
and latching onto them with your dear life. You can also meet new, better
people. You may not progress to an actual relationship but you built something with
this other person. These connections teach you what you appreciate, like and do
not want in a partner. These connections will teach you whether you are the
problem or the approach you are using is not the right one for you. The better
the connections you make with other people, the better the choice of
relationship you will have. You will never settle if you have choices. You will
have learnt what makes a quality relationship. As compared to making bad
choices over and over again by sticking to one thing, one person, the same
design and the same attitude.
You are not desperate
Simply; you are not
desperate. You never will be desperate. It is just a matter of having
options and choices.
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