3 quick relationship killers
22 July 2015, 12:58
Nairobi - 3 phrases that might be the end of your relationship.
But you knew who I was when we got together’
Not going into a relationship to change your partner but you
should expect some things from them. When you acquire a wife or a girlfriend
she hopes that you would take time out of your ‘busy’ weekend schedule with the
boys to at least spend time with her. When you acquire a boyfriend or a husband
he is hoping that you will reduce on your drinking sprees especially on
weekdays and be open to spend some time at home with him. Saying the above
statement proves that you are not ready to make room for the relationship to
work if it does not suit you. You are not ready to change your lifestyle for
them, so why should they be with you?
‘Why can’t you be like…. (so and so)’
We would hope that when you chose to be with your partner,
you knew who they were and how they were. Telling a partner that they should be
more like or less like someone you know: an ex, a person that you hope would
look your way at least once or a mutual friend is an indirect insult.
In fact keep it to yourself because you can never take back
some things. Your partner is with you because they hope that you picked them
for them. Saw something different and appreciated it and not because you had
something else in mind.
‘You also did it’
If you do something, accept the responsibility for it. Be
accountable. Do not start digging up things that happened a long while ago,
which your partner atoned for and has never repeated. Say you did it but you
are allowed because they also did it.
You know you used it when it comes to touching money in some
account or when someone cheated and you are now also caught with your pants
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