3 mistakes men make in relationships
17 December 2015, 15:59
Nairobi - Men make a number of mistakes in relationships. Here are three of the most common.
After the dating you
do not become available
Once you have her on your side you forget about her. You
forget what you used to do in order to win her and forget the reason that she
chose you in the first place. Things like dating, surprises and spending time
with her. Then get annoyed when she does it with someone else. It is not that
she is cheating but she is just doing what she likes to do with someone who is
available to her and not making her feel neglected.
You have her around
just for the sake of having her around
She is not special to you neither do you treat her as such.
She is aware of it but she does not make you aware of it. This means that you
do not understand her neither do you make room for the things that matter to
her. You continue to do things just like you would have done if you were alone
and that is what makes you ‘not her type’ of man. In the end, she would rather
end the relationship than be with someone who is available but not available to
You do not make it
Love is easy and that is what everybody will tell you but it
takes work on your part to actually make it fun, fruitful and enjoyable. You
want that but you want her to do it all; pay attention, remember important anniversaries,
remember what matters to you-but you do not do the same for her.
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