3 major mistakes women make
08 February 2016, 12:47
Nairobi - A lot of women would avoid a lot of bad decision making if
they only learnt the art of checking themselves. Just when you are about to
make a decision, you take it through a process, evaluate yourself and your life
and how it will change your world-then make the decision.
When you overlook good men because they are not your type
Some of you would not be struggling if you had just reduced
the superficial nature of what you want or need from your better half. I have a
friend who has a ‘bad’ type. Here comes along a really good guy who is taking
care of her and wants to commit to her. She keeps telling him no because he is
not up to her usual tastes. I told her, that she can continue playing as long
as she knows he will not stick around for her answers forever.
When a good man comes along, he is either too short, too
broke, not earning enough, too black or just too something. Don’t worry, your
type will always be there no matter what anyone tells you but what matters is how
he will treat you after you commit to him. At times the decisions you make are
the ones to blame and not the person you are with.
Some of the traits you have are not very attractive
You need to learn to self-check and learn how to slowly
eliminate some of the things you do that just make you unattractive to be
around. Sometimes you are busy telling a man what you need or expect from him
but most of the times it is not because he cannot. But he is just looking at
the person who is asking for that special treatment and she does not look,
sound or act like she even deserves it. That is why he will keep running you in
circles, not because he cannot do what you want but because he does not think
you are even worth that much effort.
Making demands that are not even realistic
Just before you ask someone for something, ask
yourself if you can get it yourself. People get tired and people do walk out
after receiving a lot of bullshit. It is so embarrassing when you ask someone
for an apartment in Kilimani and if they were to disappear on you, you would
not have the rent to keep it up. Or if they walk out, you would be chased
out. Let someone know that you want them
but you do not need them-that is the only way you will ever be able to have a
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