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3 lies people say in relationships

12 November 2015, 15:17 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - You see two people and you know they are dating, engaged or even maybe married. One of them is a friend, a close association, a relative of yours so they come and tell you the behind the scenes action of what is happening in their relationship.  You give them a ear hoping that your advice will make everything better but you end up feeling sorry for them because their partner is such a jerk! How can they continue staying with them? How could they have ended up with such a person when they are so good?

But have you ever noticed how when someone is telling a story of their situation, they rarely say that they are the ones who created the problem but are the ones suffering in the problem.

Some people are just bullies within their own relationship

They will come to you ad tell you how they were insulted and how this person is emotionally straining them. They leave out the part about how they always start it. They either neglect their partner. Some partners even snatch money from their partner’s bag/wallet because they know the other one is meek and will not do anything. This when, the partner told them they could not afford something or that is all they had. When they come to you though, they will tell you how they are not being helped out and why they have to be the ones that do everything.

They start something that they do not know how to finish it

They will start the problem, build a mountain out of a small issue but when it gets out of hand they are at a loss on how to close it. Then they will blame it on the other person and say how they like creating problems; yet they are the ones that turned something small that can be easily ignored into something big. Now they are crying on your shoulder complaining as to why they have to suffer with such a person.

If it keeps happening again and again, it is them!

There are no two ways about this one. All their relationships are predictable when it comes to the problems that are suffered in it: not with one person but with multiple people. It is not their partner, but them. They are the problem. They are not the victim but instigator.

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