3 easy love killers
23 April 2015, 16:26
Nairobi - How can relationships be killed? Here are three ways they can.
There is drama, then there is drama. Some people are over
dramatic and they live for it. It is good on stage but in a real life
relationship, it does more harm than good.
When you partner does something wrong, it is good to put a
pause, but do not overplay it.
If it is just a small issue, then keep it that way and do
not build a mountain from a mole hill. It will build up and soon enough blow up
in your face.
There are some people
though whom it is just their nature. No matter how beautiful the face, it is
better to keep away from it. For example, our very own Kenyan couple in some
This one can never
see the good side of anything in life. Like there are cheerleaders, there are
You get a promotion, they do not see anything in that.
Better pay, better house, even when you change your look, they are the ones
that just hang their head pretty low in life and hope keep waiting for misery
to strike them at every corner.
Such type of people trust me, they never change. In fact it
gets worse with age. If you can handle it, good for you. But if you are one of
those people that can be easily dragged down, then clear off them.
There is nothing wrong with competition. In fact it is
healthy to always keep people in their toes but not in relationships.
There are those people who live for competition in their
daily life and they bring it in a relationship. Get better pay, I will match
you. Get a better job, I will do you better and raise myself higher. If you are one step ahead, they will find a way to maneuver
themselves two steps in the lead.
This is damaging because in the end, the other person gets
tired of having to be in mental combat after doing it all day with people
outside. A relationship is about finding solace form everyday ups and downs. If
they are not getting that with you, they will look for it somewhere else and
soon enough you will be done.
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