3 characteristics women look for in men
09 December 2015, 15:19
Nairobi - While you are dating someone a lot of things come to mind
for most; his looks and if they are not there, their personality. Then you
think about if they can make you laugh and provide for you; if they are
responsible and reliable because to most that is what I most important. We
forget about character so when they shout at some lady for not doing her job
well, we write it off as stress or her being in the wrong. At times, you even
support him because what did she think she was doing anyway?
A lot of us forget that after you get in a relationship with
him, you will be the one dealing with him on a daily or weekly basis if he has
disappearing tendencies. Then you get shocked when you are on the receiving end
of one of the guy’s moments. After all everything was just right except you did
not think that it was that important.
How he talks about other women around you?
Important; most women fall under the spell of, ‘if he is
talking derogatorily against them then they are not that important to him, that
is a nice thing for me.’ You think if he is showing disrespect to them, then it
does not affect you. Thou should continue not being worried because eventually
it will be directed to you. You are one of the same species he does not like.
How he treats his subordinates
Anyone that works under him or he pays. It all shows his
regard for respect in terms of receiving it and giving it. If he gets that
respect and not scorn just by being in the room then that is a good man. If it
is the opposite of that, then you should be worried. If you do not care then
don’t be worried when he thinks you are only good for cleaning house.
How he handles responsibility
Responsibility includes accountability. If
Is he the type that passes the blame on to another person
when things go wrong? Or is he the type that waits until the last minute to do
something then pass it off to the next person that is available. That is what
you will be dealing with while you are with that man.
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