2 ways to make him propose
22 September 2015, 18:19
Nairobi - He is stalling on you and proposing. What to do?
Showing him what he will lose if he does not appreciate it
Too much of a good thing makes the stomach curdle. We ruin
things and make them worse when we force more of it down someone’s throat. You
want your man to propose, so you cling more, ask what he needs more, call him
to make sure he is okay and to him, he reads that as you becoming nagging which
is what he wants to get away from. You want him to propose, remind him of your
value in his life by taking it away.
The best wars were won when the losing team pulled back and
re-strategized e.g Troy. As the woman in your relationship or long-term dating,
pull back. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. At times the people we are with
tend to take us for granted, we need to remind them of the role we have in
their lives. If your partner does not realize that, then they were never going
to pop the question anyway and were wasting your time.
You need to cultivate your independence
I am not saying you have a feminist war in your home but you
need to show your man that whether he plays ball for your team or doesn’t, you
will still win. Being in a relationship for too long, as women, we tend to get
lost in our men. We wrap ourselves around the guy we cease to exist outside of our
jobs and home life. He did not fall in love with that but what you presented
when he met you. Try to keep that up, and do not let go of yourself. Men tend
to run the opposite direction later on in the relationship when you lose that.
You make your happiness based on him and that is not an easy luggage to carry
especially when you are thinking of a life-time partner because he knows he
will make a mistake. He needs to know you will be able to handle yourself with
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