2 ways to cure relationship problems
10 September 2015, 16:53
Nairobi - Your relationship is not dead. You can cure it. How though?
Appreciate how things are now
Looking back at how awesome your relationship used to be is
nice for reminiscing but like what you have now as well. Appreciate what you
have now as well. Maybe the both of you
have gone slack and are not as spontaneous as you used to be. The thing is
start realizing that when you were out looking for someone and eventually
settling into a relationship with your partner that they were what you wanted.
You were hoping for them to say yes to you and they were your dream date. We
get into a rut when we stop appreciating our partners and thinking that someone
else who is better, who will treat us better is still out there for us.
Try changing your tune
As relationships progress we rarely is ever feel the need to
please our partners at all. In the beginning we would be more open to do things
with them and find out what their latest interests are. Now if they ask you
anything you are more inclined to say no rather than say yes until they stop
asking completely. Soon enough, you have no idea what your partner is up to and
what they are doing. If your partner asks you to join them, try being open to
saying yes and restrain from an outright now. For a change, cancel something in
order for you to be with them.
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