When the mother is on the ex’s side
11 May 2016, 14:49
Nairobi - Women have a lot to deal it and when it
comes to men you just don’t know what type of tricks you have to pull out of
Some men are lucky I don’t believe in
voodoo and juju because at times a woman just gets tired. You lucky I read the
There was this time I had a mother in law
and she did not like me much. I think she thought her son could do better.
The ex is a lot of things but when your
man’s mother is on her side, we have a problem. I would tell you to walk away
if things eventually got tricky. This is how I see it, she wants him back, the
mother wants them back together and the man look too unsure of himself; then
you have a problem. Save yourself the trouble and let this man go.
There are a lot of things that go into any
relationship that not too many people know about. You think you know but you
don’t and when you have no one to turn to for support, you will understand what
I mean. When you cannot ask for advice when you need it, you will understand
what I mean. When the person who needs to help you, looks for ways to mess it
up, you will understand what I mean.
This is why I said, let that man go if he
does not know himself. A good man will know how to put some people in their
place such that they do not cause you any trouble because you are important to
him. Your state of mind is his state of mind; this is how you know you have it
Don’t stick around for the man that keeps
quiet when his past is having breakfast with the mother.
You think you can
handle it but you will not be able to.
As you get older in the relationship,
you realize that you could have done better for yourself. This is how you see
Don’t put up with some things in the name of ‘fighting for what we
It will come back to bight you and when it does, you will be old, all
the good men will be takes and the breast will no longer be perky to attract
what you deserve, You will settle.
Then you will remember what I said.