Men that should not marry
10 May 2016, 16:29
Nairobi - I think that the reason there are so many
failed marriages is not because marriage has become suddenly obsolete but the
people who pick to go into the institution.
It is not that you should stay away
from it but maybe you should just wait. A lot of you should be put into the
waiting list in my opinion but because some woman is desperate to prove some
people wrong, you get lucky.
If you are a woman, there are men that you
really should stay away from when it comes to tying the note.
who have more than two baby mothers
When a man has one child from a past, that
is alright but when it is two then three and then foru and all from different
women, stay away. Marriage is not a cure that man will take. He might be
attentive now but trust me, it will eventually fade and he will be looking for
the next one. You do not want to be the one that tied herself to such a person.
Why are you trying to start a family when
you can barely keep yourself together? I really don’t like it when people use
religion to defend themselves, ‘God will provide.’
What? Put yourself together then look for
your mate. I also do not like men who sit down while they let their partner do
everything. If you are not ready, there is nothing wrong with waiting. Last
week I thought I was in love then I slept and I realized I found some other man
handsome. They are not always the last person in the world.
with anger issues
When people talk about finding yourself,
there is a lot more going into it other than what a lot of people think. Men who cannot control their anger are very
scary and when a woman ties herself to such thinking she is a changing factor;
you are not. Only a man who has truly found himself will know when it is time
to tell himself to stop. You do not want to commit to a man with such problems.
Even the slightest thing will spark that one and you will not want your kids to
be around such.
who thinks he is entitled
You see, just the way there is a woman who
has a ‘me’ attitude there is that man that is the same but it is different. He
wants marriage but not because he recognizes it as partnership but because he
needs to be the head of something. He cannot be the head at his job so how
about he makes the wife and kids his servants. My dear, don’t feel blessed, get
away from such a man. All of you will never be able to make him feel secure and
when he fails it is because of you but never him.