Have I ever been asked out on a date by a married man
25 May 2016, 14:22
Have I ever been asked out on a date by a
married man? Uuuum yes! Did I go? That will have to be a yes too. Was I unaware
at the time of asking? I can smell a rat three miles away, yes I knew.
I am not a pretentious person so you will
ask me as an aggravated wife or an angry dad why I went. Simple answer; Kenyan men are amusing. I like
to be entertained so you would rather have me who has no evil intentions as
compared to some other women.
Kenyan men have funny stories to go with
them. That is why I date them. The things these guys can come up with in a
second to justify anything are just hilarious. And, the worst part is they have
judged all of us women as stupid so they just say anything because they are
assuming I am stupid. I will not correct you. I like it when people
I will listen, and then I will come and
write an article about it.
We are not going to go for the obvious,
people do not even have rings these days and when they do, they are more
married man will have it all working for him
A bachelor is usually tired, married men
aren’t. Married men have balance, bachelors don’t. Bachelors have to find some
other way to cope. That is why you will have the drinking binges, the bachelor
trips and the things that help fill in the time.
A married man is perfect and that is where
your problem is. He cannot do all those things a bachelor does because he has a
wife or because he is Kenyan, wives, who are waiting on him. He is juggling
them there and he has work here. That is the balance I am talking about. Be
wary of a perfect man. Something is off and I will tell you it is a rat.
a man is explaining himself to you, he is ready
I was once seeing someone; this one I did
not know by the way. I snatched his phone just playing around while he was busy
texting on a damn Sunday, in the morning. Who is busy on a Sunday morning? I
just asked, ‘texting your girlfriend?’ He admitted he was and it was game over
because you cannot lie to me.
Some of you are really happy because your
man is telling you anything and everything. You should be wary. The best hidden
things are hidden in plain sight. When a man is giving you, step by step plans
of his day it is in order to make you feel secure; most men that are legit do
not do that. A bachelor will not want you policing him because he is still
fighting for that small freedom. A married man lost that years ago so he will
tell you what he wants you to know and what you think is important to you.
will be available and he will not be available
A man who asks you to make a schedule and
fulfills his part with no drama; is a guy you should be worried about. It is
all in that freedom part. He is ready for you and that is what you should be
He knows this time is set aside for you
specifically and the time you did not ask for is with the family. It is that
simple. Bachelors don’t jump when you bark, for the non-desperate type but if
he is doing what you want? Be worried. This is important when it comes to you
going to his place. You can only go at certain times and it is done in such a
way you don’t question. ‘I am busy in the afternoon but you can come in the
evening’ type of way.