Dubious stories men tell women
04 May 2016, 15:50
Nairobi - I always feel like I should write a guide
for everything because no matter how foolish something sounds to you, it will
be plausible for someone else.
A woman in (not sure whether to call it love)
will take anything a man tells her and if necessary, help him with the excuses
just to make him look good in her eyes and whoever else will interfere with
Obviously you have already heard of Tiwa’s
marriage troubles and it seems even from the beginning she was warned about
that man, but she did not listen. She defended him, and decided she was going
in. Now see. Men with stories never hand you anything other than trouble.
have asked my wife for a divorce so that I can be with you
If you have been waiting for this divorce
for even a year-lie.
wife cannot have children so I am looking for another wife.
If you want to be a co-wife/second wife-
uuummm okay; just remember you invited the drama in your life.
will divorce her if you want
It is not meant to be what you want but
what he wants. If he is not ready to divorce her, he will just pretend he has
and come lie to you about it. If you are not smart you will not ask for the
papers nor follow up if they are actually filed.
Just don’t deal with married men. That is
my advice and if he has stories, leave him alone.
There is a reason I stay away from them. If
it is unnecessary, I stay away from it. 7 billion people, half of them are men.
I am sure I can find one that is not taken.
with her because of the kids; we do not even sleep together
If they are in the same house-yes, that is
only sleeps here when I have the kid
Healthy separated relationship but with a
kid involved is when both parents leave their own lives and keep out of each
other’s business. This is the sign you need when the baby mother still wants
and has the man. Leave him to her.
with her because of the child, but when the child grows up. I will leave her.
So this is how a woman stays in a two year
relationship waiting for man because he told her when the child is at least
five, he will be with her.
is just my friend
Beware of the friend that has never had a
man while you dated your man. Always calls him for anything. Friend ship is not
bad but there is that friendship with an undertone. You will be able to tell.
The one that will laugh and fall on his lap because the joke is too funny but
because she is like a sister, they can’t do that! That is what you will assume.
Space for a weekend? Fine. Space for a
month? You better be dating other people because that one is also seeing other
people. He might not be seeing other people but he is not feeling you as much
as you would like. Don’t allow someone to be popping in and out of your life
disrupting it. Are you a public toilet?
are dating but it is not that serious
Don’t clutter your life my dear. Just look
for someone who dates you exclusively and if theydo not like you, they move and
don’t waste your time. What happens after six months and he likes her more? You
have just ignored every other man because of this one.