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Dubious stories men tell women

04 May 2016, 15:50 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - I always feel like I should write a guide for everything because no matter how foolish something sounds to you, it will be plausible for someone else.

A woman in (not sure whether to call it love) will take anything a man tells her and if necessary, help him with the excuses just to make him look good in her eyes and whoever else will interfere with their relationship.

Obviously you have already heard of Tiwa’s marriage troubles and it seems even from the beginning she was warned about that man, but she did not listen. She defended him, and decided she was going in. Now see. Men with stories never hand you anything other than trouble.

The married man

I have asked my wife for a divorce so that I can be with you

If you have been waiting for this divorce for even a year-lie.

My wife cannot have children so I am looking for another wife.

If you want to be a co-wife/second wife- uuummm okay; just remember you invited the drama in your life.

I will divorce her if you want

It is not meant to be what you want but what he wants. If he is not ready to divorce her, he will just pretend he has and come lie to you about it. If you are not smart you will not ask for the papers nor follow up if they are actually filed.

Just don’t deal with married men. That is my advice and if he has stories, leave him alone.

The single father

There is a reason I stay away from them. If it is unnecessary, I stay away from it. 7 billion people, half of them are men. I am sure I can find one that is not taken.

I am with her because of the kids; we do not even sleep together

If they are in the same house-yes, that is a lie.

She only sleeps here when I have the kid

Healthy separated relationship but with a kid involved is when both parents leave their own lives and keep out of each other’s business. This is the sign you need when the baby mother still wants and has the man. Leave him to her.

I am with her because of the child, but when the child grows up. I will leave her.

So this is how a woman stays in a two year relationship waiting for man because he told her when the child is at least five, he will be with her.

The single man

She is just my friend

Beware of the friend that has never had a man while you dated your man. Always calls him for anything. Friend ship is not bad but there is that friendship with an undertone. You will be able to tell. The one that will laugh and fall on his lap because the joke is too funny but because she is like a sister, they can’t do that! That is what you will assume.

I need space

Space for a weekend? Fine. Space for a month? You better be dating other people because that one is also seeing other people. He might not be seeing other people but he is not feeling you as much as you would like. Don’t allow someone to be popping in and out of your life disrupting it. Are you a public toilet?

We are dating but it is not that serious

Don’t clutter your life my dear. Just look for someone who dates you exclusively and if theydo not like you, they move and don’t waste your time. What happens after six months and he likes her more? You have just ignored every other man because of this one.



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